Meghan Markle the Duchess of Sussex has revealed she went through a miscarriage rising in the new York times she said it broke her husband's Haas and that she hopes people could commit to asking others if they were okay the Duchess outlines the events of one morning last July and she said I knew as I clutched my firstborn child but I was losing my second the doctor spoke of feeling I'm almost unbearable grief at losing a child what she said was experienced by many but talked about by few and the pain of a loss she said my husband and I discovered that in a room full of 100 women 10 to 20 of them will have suffered from a miscarriage yet despite the staggering commonality of this pain the conversation remains to boot Megan said she shared her experience to urge people to commit to asking others are you okay over the thanksgiving holiday in the U. S.
with more details for us, he's a role correspondent Sarah Campbell. It's an article entitled the losses we shed so it's wider than just Megan's experience little Missy relates it to what we now know happened in July this year and she starts by saying off to changing out she's diapers she said she felt a sharp cramp she took to the floor with him in her arms a humming a lullaby she said to keep his both calm and she knew that something wasn't right she says as I clutch my firstborn child I knew that I was losing my second and it goes on in detail to talk about this is distressed that she and Prince Harry suffered earlier this year as I say in July of this year suffered a miscarriage and also sort of relates to the fact that this is a.
Can be invited to be a common occurrence and lots of women talk about to experience it but don't talk about it she says that you know they know that in a room of 100 women tend to 20 of them will have suffered a miscarriage and yet the conversation remains toppings so relating her own experiences perhaps hoping that this may give women the courage to talk about one is always a very painful and distressing experience for so many people living in America now they are living in a house in Santa Barbara in California she's talking about this thanksgiving of course in the steak to more its thanksgiving she says as we plan for a holiday unlike any before many of us separated from our loved ones alone sick scared and divided Mrs commits to onscreen others argue okay the significance of that sentence, of course, was that it was in an interview with an I. T. N. reports a. Many years ago that really sort of gave.
Make it obvious that things weren't happy with Meghan the dentist also all you A. K. G. said will. Thank you for asking people haven't lost me that question and so she's released and saying we need to be asking each other more all you okay and that's really the sort of that's the thrust of the article but as you would expect because she's such a high price high profile person people will be focusing today on my personal. Knees that she and prince Harry suffered a miscarriage in July of this year there has been a huge reaction worldwide to this opinion piece particularly for women and men who themselves have experienced a miscarriage or still birth the family were about to talk to have sent us these photographs off their daughter Avery who was stillborn at 7 months for them it's really important to capture the short time they had with her and they hope that by speaking about their experience will help break down the stigma Nicole and Steven Chidgey live and Manchester then I have 2 sons home to an agent but they continue to remember the life off their doors to a free and I'm pleased to say they are with me now to share some of their experiences and to talk about the blog that they started off as just talk about some of the things that happen to them and to share their experiences with other parents let me see you both Nicole and Stephen thank you for taking this time it's really important for us to talk to families like yours have experienced loss in this way out Nicole I wanted to stop by asking you just you know how you felt about Meghan's piece and the things she had to say.
I think you may at 8 it's heartbreaking to had I gotten that you know in the past and has gone through Boston has to experience the great that you do god for it. 8 thank god she's really. Creating a platform for women to stop speaking and I know across the lost community this morning everyone's talking about it and everyone's really relating to the wife that she saying I need to make especially when it first happened to me in 2000 169 high profile people never come out but they've been very pregnant she lost the ball and I felt really alone when it happened because I didn't know anyone and I thought I was the only person in the world that it never happened J. so I think it's just really nice to know that most high profile people are coming out that and speaking about to integrating the awful but millions of farmland stopping for it feel alone so no call when she talks about Meghan the Tabuk of miscarriage and almost that sense of shame is that still true do you think or things were so changing on that front.
I think things are changing slightly but is absolutely still it's a brave subject if you do not experience it. Los. And people don't want Harry Aponte a perfect example would be the negative criticism Chrissy Teigen's received recently for sharing her side of the experience people like to remain very naive to it and not know about too because it is such a negative thing to happen well the reality is it's a very real thing that happens after you die and so we do need to be talking about that mobile is that there is a long way to go it's a very under-researched new variants talk about subjects and Steven if women aren't talking about ways I'm sure many men not talking about it either how did you feel when you experienced the loss of your daughter with any man that you felt that you could reach out to and talk to about this. I am it was very very difficult it wasn't anybody directly because Nicole said we weren't aware of well the people going through this we kind of we were really naive we thought she was not first also so it was just a case if you get pregnant you have a baby and then I'm not stopping when it happened it was a huge shock and he took because moms to be able to realize that there are other people out that I was so I was very fortunate not like I was really open with the cold and we were very close so she was my biggest soft person to speak to her as well as my parents spoke otherwise there wasn't really anybody that I could reach out to you that would understand it from a sort of a personal level until we came across Thomas on the rainbow clinic where I reached out to another I know the father he was like a meetings or coffee morning whack just got the opportunity to talk to all the fathers and all the couples.
I'm I'm not for me was a real turning point because you can't get the same support talking to the same person who's been through it in your household also many you doesn't understand so that kind of level of all which was what was a huge part of my road to recovery if you like so Stephen do you think it's really important that Meghan talked about Harry and talked about his pain his hot being broken as well yeah most definitely because I think like in society blackmail hasta alpha male response well you've got to be stronger and I certainly wouldn't allow any of my pain and loss Nicole was kind of tired of going through the whole delivery pro Saxon I know that kind of thing it's just it's so important to remember that one next if you are a guy who's been through it do you need to talk to somebody and it's okay not to be okay rather than trying to be the strength all the time I just think that does outreach is stop like sons and Tommy separated is incredible because as I say speaking to all the males of all is it so important so I think she's done a really good.
Things fall. For the whole organization ready to try and help males because it is just so important I thank you both very brave for talking to us but Nicole I wonder if you also think that it took a real level of bravery from American to speak out about this sorry publicly knowing as well, of course, there's going to be some backlash from some people to. Absolutely I'm the lowest about collection imagine when you're in the spotlight but I think more than anything well I think she must be really feeling right now is not she's had a weight lifted off my chest because the whole day in something so painful light not being really really difficult I know you live in favor of the questions when people don't know what you've been pretty living favorite people asking you know when's next baby coming until she really lifting fare box and you know I just think it's amazing that she spoke out but I imagine I thought should be really good for her to detox and that positive messages that you receive from people say need help and what little outweigh the negative ones we are going to help many people today as well by speaking to us and we're really pleased to hear that hunter and 8 in a doing so well you're happy families together thank you very much for joining thank you so much.
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